January 17, 2012

Life's a Beach


The nightmare of finding the practicum and internship to finish up my masters has been awful. Because I attend an online school with 40,000 students, they aren't able to help with placement at all really. When you live in the same city as one of the top medical centers in the nation, ANY job there, even an internship is hard to come by. All of my connections are at that medical center, so they were no help. Then you have three large universities who all have students looking as well. Clearly, it has been a struggle, but I think I know why. The place that God wanted me to work didn't open until October of 2011. Frustrated and exhausted I quit looking for the month of December 2011. I needed a break and to recharge for the disappointing process. So my first day back at work, post New Years, I started the search again. Having talked to the parents we had already decided that they were willing to let me stay at the beach house if I could find something down there. With that knowledge I hopped on Google and typed in "North Myrtle Beach counseling" and one of the links was to a site that anyone can use in any city to find a therapist. It said their were four in NMB; a short list but easy to weed through. Two of them worked together, one looked super old, and the third looked nice and like someone I could learn from. I did email one of the two that worked together, but I also looked up the last one to see where she worked. The center she is at is affiliated with a church that several people I know attend when they are down there on vacation. Knowing it was a Christian place did bring a level of comfort. I email her via a less than impressive "Contact Us" page for that generic therapy site. She emailed back in less than an hour!! This has been UNHEARD of in my quest for a practicum/internship. I promptly answered her questions and things rolled smoothly from there. NOTHING has been this smooth about the process. After a couple emails and a phone interview I let her know I'd be down for MLK weekend and would love to stop by. This happened and after one hour of chatting and a tour she took my paperwork to fill out! That's right, the light at the end of this LONG TUNNEL of my masters is now visible. Not only did she want me for my practicum, but barring some catastrophe between us all, I'll also be there for my internship!! This means that my degree could be conferred before 2013 and I can put that super expensive and stressful paper in its super expensive frame for all the world to see!

I must say that this degree has not been all bad. I've learned SO much and met some of the most amazing women in America. Thanks to Facebook (and Starbucks, where I am typing this from), we'll be friends forever =D.  Not to mention the impressive counseling/psychology library I'm building and have no room for!

So in April, if LU is nice and approves everything, I'll leave my paying job and be moving back to the beach. And I'll be there until around December...don't you feel bad for me?! Haha. I know this post could illicit requests for visits and you're welcome to come.....if...1) The owners of the house (my parents) approve and 2) you're willing to pay a little something for the bills since I'll have to work a part time job to help out too. I promise to make it cheaper than a hotel =).
Anyway...I have a plan!!! It may only be through this year, but that's better than it has been! If you're itching to buy me a celebratory meal/drink I won't say no!!

January 3, 2012

Goals..not resolutions

I don't do resolutions. Few people keep them and they are simply a statement of intention. I prefer goals, something I can work toward. Today I was reading the blog of a friend who does a list of goals for every month. When it is time to create a new list she is able to check things finished, note progress made on others, and reset her goals for the month. I love it. I love a list and it seems like I'll hold myself more accountable to that list if my readers know what I'm supposedly working toward and will see it I'm making progress or not. Also, its nice that a goal is something you can make progress on. Resolutions always feel like failures because they tend to seem unattainable. Like one of my goals is to lose 40lbs this year and working toward that sounds better, in my head at least, than failing at a resolution to "get in shape this year". Goals are something to be achieved, to aim for, not a set up for failure (which is what New Years resolutions always seem to be). So in the spirit of a new start, I'll be attempting to remember to write goals for each month. This post also has my goals for 2012, because as Mel said...This is our year!!! (Eventually it will be true)

2012 Goals

- Find and complete a practicum

- Find and complete an internship

- GRADUATE WITH MY MASTERS!

- Find my own place again

- Lose 40lbs (Like most people I'll be taking pics, but until I'm closer to this 40 I wont be sharing)

- Run (or jog) a 5K


January 2012 Goals

- Either find a local practicum, or decide to try Wisconsin for a practicum. But have this decided.

- 4 workouts/week (gym or home)

- Read 2 books

-Start re-reading the DSM (I'm crazy, I know)

Okay, there they are. Some BIG stuff is in that short list, but I really want to get it done. Keep me in check and don't let me forget to tell you all how its going.

Happy New Year Y'all!



PS: My nephew turns 3 years old next Monday!!! He'll be having a Phineas & Ferb Party so the Perry hat below is perfect.